Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Top Twelve Books Read in 2011

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These Are Fiction

The Visible Man by Chuck Klosterman. 5 Stars. In his second novel, Klosterman barely describes the two main characters, but somehow they're more memorable than many people I know. The story is told through transcriptions of therapy sessions, with occasional one-sided correspondence from the therapist to her publisher, as well as a few notes she wrote about occurrences outside of therapy. Without spoiling too much, the main character, Y___, has developed a suit that allows him to not be seen. He uses this to observe people when they think they are alone - the ultimate reality show. Things happen as a result of his "invisibility" which he does not feel responsible for, but still senses some sort of guilt. Though the book is obviously fiction, you'll probably feel differently about seemingly empty space for awhile after you finish.

The Weird Sisters by Eleanor Brown. 5 Stars. When the book began, I wasn't sure I would be able to keep the three sisters and their stories straight. Instead, I was swallowed up by their world. Each sister's predicament was unique, as was her personality and the way she chose to cope with things. My favorite aspect of the novel was what I thought was the most unique - the story is told in a strange first person/third person hybrid that I have never read before. Each sister is referred to by name: Rose, Bean, and Cordy. Yet they are "our" sisters, "we" live with "our" mother and father, etc. It was very interesting to be part of the story, yet always on the outskirts. You were never a specific sister, but you were in the family somehow.

The Average American Male by Chad Kultgen. 4 Stars. Kultgen's writing style is straight-forward and plain, but it worked perfectly with the plot line and really stood out as unique. The book is exactly what the title presents - an average man, his thoughts and daily actions. Funny parts made me actually laugh out loud, and the ending was realistic rather than happy, which is always a plus in my opinion. The whole book was so honest that any other resolution would have been a cop-out.

These Are Fiction, Based On Truth

11/22/63 by Stephen King. 4 Stars. The book seems daunting, topping out at 849 pages, but it's worth the heft. Usually there are parts of books that I think can be taken out to make the story more concise, but despite the length of this book, I wouldn't take anything out. King does any excellent job of including side stories that don't seem crucial to the plot but are interesting, and they are all relevant in the end. If anything was left out, it would seem like he's glossing over time (the book spans over four years of history). The aspect of time travel was handled very well, and is guaranteed to get you thinking "what if?"

Richard by Ben Myers. 4 Stars. An excellent book about the disappearance of the Manic Street Preachers' Richey Edwards, told from the point of view of the man himself. Though it is fiction, the basis is in facts and that makes it all the more fascinating. The narrative is told in alternating passages of the present and the past, with the past leading up to where the book begins - delightfully circular. Myers has many beautiful, powerful sentences worth an immediate re-read before going on to the next. Highly recommended.

These Will Make You Laugh

When You Are Engulfed in Flames by David Sedaris. 5 Stars. After a Sedaris binge in December, this stands out as my favorite Sedaris book read so far. All have been well-written, but this is the first I'd actually classify as funny - many essays had me laughing out loud. Worth checking out at LEAST for the copy written on the inside flap, which is the best I've ever read.

Nothing Happens Until It Happens to You by T.M. Shine. 4 Stars. I picked this book up at the perfect moment - right after I lost my job (due to no fault of my own), just like Jeffrey, the main character. Jeffrey has a hilarious way of looking at the world, seeing humor even when he feels like his life is falling apart, and even if he doesn't realize he's seeing things humorously. The book kept me laughing, but also had some incredibly moving moments.

These Have Built-In Soundtracks

Drinking With Strangers by Butch Walker. 5 Stars. Walker's songs are witty and thought-provoking, and it's no surprise that his book is written in the same style as his lyrics. Drinking with Strangers is a refreshingly honest tale centering on the music industry, but told from Walker's personal point of view. He shares a lot about his life, at times glossing over any substance abuse and marital issues but I didn't have much of a problem with that because it's not some gritty, gossip-y tell-all. He admitted to bad choices he made, like working with certain people he should have turned down while passing on projects he could have made a fortune from and becoming materialistic when he let fame go to his head. If you love Walker's music, you will love reading his story, which almost feels like having a conversation with him. For a man with such talent and fame, he is extremely down to earth and doesn't stroke his ego, even though he's certainly earned it.

Love is a Mix Tape by Rob Sheffield. 5 Stars. The Rolling Stone music critic goes over some of his mix tapes and how they relate to his love life. We listen along as he meets a woman, dates her, marries her and spends married life in her shadow. We witness his wife's sudden death and Sheffield's attempts at getting on with his life. Sheffield sprinkles music criticism and stories of being a rock journalist into the mix. I can't think of another book that has made me laugh incredibly hard in one paragraph then have me tearing up in the next.

These Are For The Young Adult In You

Living Dead Girl by Elizabeth Scott. 5 Stars. This book is apparently very controversial since it's a young adult book, though it's recommended for ages 16 and up. "Alice" is a fifteen-year-old girl who has been living with her kidnapper for five years. I could tell more of what it's about without giving it away, but I won't. What was most compelling about this book for me was how those five years can make or break someone, how crucial that period is for development. The way it's written really pulls you in, and by the end you're thinking about every man with a little girl you've ever seen, wondering if she was really his daughter, wondering if you should have done something. Amazing book, highly recommended, one I'll definitely re-read.

So B. It by Sarah Weeks. 5 Stars. A young teen, Heidi, lives with her mentally disabled mother, who only knows a select amount of words, and who thinks her own name is "So Be It." Their caring neighbor, Bernie, took them under her wing when Heidi was just a week old. Bernie provides for them the best she can, however, what she can provide is limited, because she is agoraphobic. When Mama adds a new word to her limited vocabulary, Heidi is determined to find the truth behind it. Every sentence was so beautiful, so powerful, yet so stripped down - no extra words, no flowery language weighing it down.

Nothing by Janne Teller. Four Stars. I had seen this book described as "disturbing" and knew I had to check it out. It's about a group of seventh graders who are trying to find meaning in life after being taunted by a classmate. They pick important things for each other to give up and add to the heap of meaning, which over time becomes more and more bizarre. It is poetically written (especially for being translated out of its native language) and is very sparse, both in prose as well as formatting (there is a lot of white space, and it's very short). I wouldn't call it "disturbing" myself; I guessed a major part of what would happen at the end and therefore wasn't shocked by that, and perhaps I read more disturbing things in general.

honorment
The Leftovers by Tom Perrotta // The Other Life by Ellen Meister // It's So Easy (and other lies) by Duff McKagan // All of Bill Bryson's works. Every. Last. One.

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Traveling on a Budget with Shereen

I found this amazing blog soon after I started traveling this past summer - it's called Shereen Travels Cheap. I bookmarked it and check back often because I know I want to continue my life on the road without depleting my savings.

I'm a person who wants to just get out there and have experiences, and even though I know I should research and book things in advance, I just… don't. Shereen, on the other hand, "loves planning a trip almost as much as taking the trip itself." Clearly she can offer me advice on more than just saving money. When I had an opportunity to review her book, Shereen Travels Cheap, I jumped at the chance.

The book is organized so that you can check the table of contents and flip right to what you need, but it's also interesting enough to be read straight through. It's a travel tip book that reads like a novel! I read the entire book, then went back and sought out advice to help with the two trips I took last month. Shereen's tips helped me fine a super-affordable hotel in downtown Chicago at the last minute, and gave me more options to price rental cars than I had previously known of.

Shereen agreed to answer some questions, so I tried to think of some fun ones that she was (hopefully!) not sick of being asked all the time.

Did you always travel cheaply, or did you take trips beyond your budget and realize you needed to change in order to keep up that lifestyle?
     Growing up, we didn’t have much money, so we were creative with travel sometimes. We did a lot of road trips and packed our own food to save money that way. Instead of sitting in roadside diners, we had lunch outside in the fresh air. As I got older, we started to go on vacations to places like Disneyland, but we still had to pinch our pennies, so we looked for ways to save on travel. Generally, we would drive instead of fly, because it was much cheaper. Now that I’m married and plan my own vacations, I still feel like saving is something to strive for. Why spend the money if you don’t have to?

Do most of your savings go towards travel, or do you occasionally splurge in your everyday life?
     There are things we do regularly, like go out to eat and the movies. While we do try to use discounts for as much as possible, we don’t necessarily skip something we really want to do if it costs a bit more. We have a vacation fund that we put a set amount into each month. If we are planning a bigger trip, we figure out how to put some extra in there (like maybe not buying those shoes I covet, but don’t need). Generally, I know what is in there and it can be spent on anything vacation, but try to work as much “under budget” as possible, so the extra can roll over to the next trip. Like this year we went to Hawaii, but ended up spending about half of what might have been expected, so that leftover in the account can go towards our 2012 trip to Europe.

In your book, you planned a trip the "regular" way, then also did it your way to show the difference in cost. Do you do this for all the trips you actually go on, just to see how much you're really saving?
     Absolutely! It’s always fun to know how much you saved. I generally start out with my “rough draft” travel plan and write down all the regular prices for things (hotels, activities, theme park tickets) and then write down anywhere that had better prices until I get to the lowest. It gives me something to work with in the beginning and a sense of accomplishment when I see how much money I didn’t actually spend.

That's a good way to make planning seem like a game - I'm going to have to try that next time! What has been your favorite trip so far?
     London has been our biggest and my most favorite trip so far. I’m really thrilled to return in 2012. There is so much to see and do there, even though England is not that big. That can probably be said for most places, but I loved my entire time there and look forward to seeing more. Hopefully, I can find more gems while I’m there, to add to my new blog that will be well into its first year online. Shereen Travels Cheap UK will be focusing on the United Kingdom (traveling to/from there and things to do for visitors and locals) and will be linked to my current blog. I have so many readers from that part of the world, and my love of it just made it seem natural that I would take my blog in that direction. Maybe a Shereen Travels Cheap to London book will be written down the line!

I loved London too, and really hope to visit again in 2012. I can't wait to read your specialized blog (and hopefully book!) about the UK! What places are you still wanting to visit?
     What place don’t I want to visit?! High on my list are Greece and Spain. Eric always names Spain as his number one choice if he could go anywhere, which prompted me to look for things to do there and I’m eager to visit L’Oceanografic Marine Complex in Valencia. Lately I’ve become more and more enamored with the thought of going to Greece. The food, the architecture, the water. It all just sticks with me and makes it hard to wait to get there. I’m thinking that eating baklava and spanakopita while looking at the view all day doesn’t seem like a bad way to spend a week or two! Long term, we still have big plans to go on a safari, but for now, we have those two travel goals set for reaching in the next five years.

     I’m a travel freak. By the time we go on vacation, Eric and I have already agreed on where to go the following year. I then start looking at what kind of budget we’ll need and what we will want to do and have basic plan at least 6 months before we go. Obviously, most people aren’t crazy like I am, but I genuinely love travel planning. It gets me excited to go and gives me time to find the best deals on everything, so we might be able to fit some extra things in.

In your book, you mention packing lightly to save on baggage fees. What are the top three things you can't travel without, even though they may not be necessities?
     The three things I take with me everywhere are probably sunscreen, because I’m paler than pale and burn like crazy if the sun ever comes out, my Kindle, because I love reading, it packs light and the battery life is amazing, and good walking shoes. I can’t tell you how many trips have been ruined by angry feet. Sightseeing is absolutely no fun if you’re in agony all day.


Thank you so much to Shereen for taking the time to answer my questions, not to mention putting all this information out there to help others! I highly recommend you check out her book, Shereen Travel Cheap - it's well worth it! For more helpful hints and great travel stories, check out her blog by the same name: Shereen Travel Cheap.

Friday, December 9, 2011

Foto Friday - Broken-Down Businesses

Tuesday's post focused on Pop Tunes, my favorite Memphis record store that unfortunately closed down after I graduated from high school. Inspired by that story, I decided to share photos of some other Memphis, uh... treasures.

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XL used to be a combination gas station and laundromat. The right side of the building was the laundromat, with a row of industrial dryers and twelve washers back to back. My parents came here when they were first married, and my dad remembers bringing massive loads (no pun intended) of diapers when my brother and I were babies.
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The building is on the edge of a residential neighborhood, across the street from the Randolph branch of the library. My dad would pay fifty cents per washer, then spend hours reading while the clothes churned.

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Speaking of libraries, one of my childhood favorites was the Highland branch.
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I loved storytime with Miss Caroline, who I still see around town, and who still remembers me. I loved that it was a two-level library, with stairs leading up to the fiction section in a loft.
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Unfortuantely, the floods in May 2011 caused a lot of damage to this location, and there are currently no plans to reopen.

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I hate to make Memphis seem like a town that discourages reading, but it sure seems that way after Bookstar was closed in January 2011. The bookstore, located just a few blocks from the Highland library, was housed in an old movie theater. The owners kept the old architecture intact, using the ticket taker's window for displays.
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The landlord of the location was insistent on raising rent, despite the economy. Bookstar, a branch of Barnes and Noble, gave up the lease and left the area without
a refuge for bookworms, unless you're a student using the nearby university
library and bookstore.
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Clearly, the landlord made a good choice when
insisting the property would rent quickly.

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And finally...
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If you can't make it selling fried chicken in Memphis, you can't make it anywhere.

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Pop Tunes

After I turned sixteen, my parents would let me have the car keys on Saturday afternoons. I'd get out and drive, even if I had nowhere to go. Shifting into second after the light changed, then rapidly into third, seamlessly into fourth, gave me such a power trip that, for a moment, I almost understood mid-life crises.

I cruised down Poplar until it branched off at the interstate, weaved around the streets near my middle school, drove by his house, pretending to be fascinated by something out the passenger-side window if he was skateboarding in the front yard.

Sometimes I wished he would notice and wave me down. I had grown up since I was last with him. I wanted him to look me up and down and nod his approval. I wanted to feel his hand on my shoulder; I wanted to shrug it off. I wanted to tell him that he lost his chance - that he never had a chance. There was always a little kernel of disappointment in my stomach after I drove by. I needed to make my stand. I needed closure; I needed to validate myself.

These Saturdays became my day to visit Pop Tunes. I usually went only if I had money, but even when I was broke, the clerks would load me up with free samplers. The best thing about Pop Tunes was that they had records - LPs. They had singles - CDs and 45s. Their CDs were overpriced, but you could take in a ten and come out with an armful of vinyl.

It was always chilly inside, even though the storefront was glass and the sun reflected off the floor, making you shield your eyes when you faced the parking lot. I would stand in front of the record bin for the good part of an hour, flipping through one by one, careful not to miss anything. The cold would seep up from the tiles, through the thin soles of my Converse-ripoffs.

I was usually all alone in that dusty corner; no one else browsed for records while I was there (and judging the slow turnover in stock, even when I wasn't). But he came over that day. From the way his body was blocking the glare from the linoleum, I could tell without looking that he was facing me, not the display. When I turned to him, I purposely blurred my vision, looking slightly over his shoulder instead of into his eyes. He reached out and touched my shoulder. I couldn't move, I couldn't find my words.

"Can I help you with anything?" he asked.
My brain was finally able to make my mouth move. "I didn't know you worked here."
"I don't."
My heart was pounding and my face was flushed; I wasn't cool enough to make my stand, I couldn't prove anything to anybody. "No, I'm all done here." I held up the two 45s I had picked out, shrugging my apology.

At the register, my hands were shaking as I pulled out some cash. From the corner of my eye, I could still see him standing there. Some coins fell when I carelessly shoved the change back in my pocket. He closed the distance between us with long strides, swept the pennies up with his thin fingers.
"You dropped these."
I stared at the copper coins in his palm. I knew he was watching, waiting for me to meet his eyes. "Keep it." I had my head down as I left the store, even though the reflection of the afternoon sun was blinding.

The bell over the door chimed in my head long after I left, and the bright light burned into my eyes was broken up by the silhouette of his tall, lanky form.

Friday, December 2, 2011

Foto Friday - Wake Up!

I'm having a little trouble waking up this morning.
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If only I could stop by the coffee shop...
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And chug this...
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Stop by H&H for one of these...
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Then I could kick start my day.

Though a sugar high might help just a little:
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Today's post brought to you by my NYC photoset, a lifelong Seinfeld addiction, and the eight minutes it takes my coffee maker to brew.